When you are looking for solutions to fix a relationship after breaking up, there are some things you have to clarify and then move on to accomplishing the plan.
* First of all, just rewind the moments in the past and try to figure out as objectively as possible the reasons that have determined him to leave you. Yes, it is true that the first days of being with someone will only make you and him act in a way that presents you in a positive and brilliant light.
Unfortunately, this doesn’t last for long because with the moments you start to feel more at your ease and sure about the other one’s love and trust you begin showing less consideration towards the relationship. It is something that many people feel and do: they take the relationship and everything it comes with it for granted. So, you’d better look back and think of those things that made him go.
* Once you have figured out what went wrong and what you did wrong it is time to stop all these from happening again. It is easier to blame him for not communicating with you or for any other matter, but keep in mind that in a relationship things are usually solved in two. It is time to take the responsibility of this into your hands and include changes that are needed to fix the problem. It is also the time to determine whether or not it is worth going back into the relationship.
* After all these things have been thought over, you will want to finally meet him but you have to decide what exactly is there to discuss with him. You will have to call him, but do not overdo it, only to get his attention. You can do this once or twice, but once you see that your invitation to meet each other is not properly responded to it is better to let it go. Keep a friendly tone when asking him to meet you.
* When he agreed to come to the meeting, you will have to ask him what the reasons were that determined him to leave you. But do not ask all these just to capitulate to his complaints, but mostly to understand his point of view before you start telling him your opinion. You must also ask him what the issues were and what went wrong in the relationship. This is only to make him understand that you are ready to learn from past mistakes and give as such a new chance to your relationship.
